The most important thing is to have a conversation with yourself. It’s not about finding answers, it’s about being aware of what’s happening inside you and being able to reflect on it. And when you’re in a conversation with yourself, you’re not just looking for one answer, you’re looking for many. You’re looking for a way to understand yourself, your emotions, your thoughts, and your beliefs. And that’s when you’ll be able to start to understand others and have a more effective communication with them.