Love is selfish.
Love is a powerful force that can bring people together, but it can also make people feel alone. When we love someone, we want them to feel the same love we have. We don’t care if they need our help, if they need our support, if they need our陪伴. We want them to be happy, to be fulfilled, to be happy with us.
But love is not always about selflessness. Sometimes, love can be about possessiveness, about jealousy, about control. We want to keep track of what our partner is doing, what they are thinking, what they are thinking about us. We want to know everything, to be in control of everything.
This can be frustrating, because it means that we are not able to be ourselves and have our own lives. It means that we are constantly checking in with our partner, trying to make them happy, to keep them from being happy. And it can be overwhelming, because it means that we are not able to enjoy the simple things in life, like spending time with our friends, going on a hike, or listening to our favorite music.
So, while love can be自私， it can also be selfless. It can be about giving ourselves to our partner, to our friends, to our family. It can be about living a life that is full of joy and fulfillment, without being in control of everything. And it can be the best thing that we can do for each other, because it allows us to be true to ourselves and to each other.
